What is "alternative lifestyle"? Alternative lifestyle or alternative personals can be defined as anything that does not fit within traditional or cultural norms. Put in another way, unusual or unconventional sexual lifestyle.  The following sites are the top on the web for alternative lifestyle personals, based on number of members, age of site and feedback from users: 

Alt.com: Claims to be the world's largest alternative lifestyle community. Their home page greets you with erotic (but tasteful) bondage and spanking pics. The stuff you that might be in your mind and wish could happen to you (wink) is well represented here. From BDSM, TS/TV/TG, groups, couples, men seeking other men, women seeking other women, blindfolds… too much to list here.  

IWantU Alternative Club: What's your fun, fancy or alternative? Erotic, nasty, kinky, wild and anything in between or outside. Whatever turns you on (as long as it's legal!), you'll find it here.

Sexy Ads: This one is a little on the naughtier side. Founded by husband and wife who met online, Sexy Ads has the feel of a personal touch. They make great effort to offer fun services not found on any other site. Services are great, and they are quick to answer your questions. You can remain anonymous until ready to reveal more about yourself. 

These sites are not only exclusive to people who practice these, but are also welcoming those who wish to know more or just to “look around”. Whatever you choice may be, the Internet is one place to get anything your heart desires.